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17, January 2016

Getting Over a Failed Booty Call

Meeting a woman who wants a loose, low commitment relationship is sort of the best thing ever. She’s made it clear that she’s up for getting together for a little sheet shaking action and then leaving it there. But as with all things that sound too good to be true, it is. You end up texting her and she makes excuses every time. The one time she does agree to come up she ends up blowing it off and you’re left with your junk in your hand and the TV. on. Failed booty calls are pretty much the worst. You didn’t get laid and, even worse than that, you feel stupid. It’s terrible getting stood up in general, but when it’s over a loose commitment that stings. Don’t let it get to you. Here’s how to get over a failed booty call.

You’d Better Recognize

Rejection Does Not Mean There Is Something Wrong With Us

Rejection Does Not Mean There Is Something Wrong With Us

Recognizing why she didn’t come over is always the first step. Rejection hurts because we end up feeling like there’s something wrong with us. You’re too nice of a guy or your body isn’t on par with other dude’s. Whatever your personal issue is it gets pointed out hardcore when you’re unexpectedly turned down. But the thing to remember here is that it isn’t you. If she’s made it clear she wants to bang you and then never follows through it’s something with her. Maybe she was feeling bold that night so she did the dirty girl thing and gave you her number. Now she’s regained her inhibitions and can’t bring herself to let them go again. It’s no fault of yours. Otherwise she may have been influenced by friends or booze and doesn’t feel like it would be proper to follow-up now that she’s got the ball rolling. None of these are necessarily fair, but at least realize that it’s not you, it’s her.

Get Over It

xr24t0i9That’s all fine and dandy, but it doesn’t help you get over the failed setup. The best way to forget is to move on and find something new. This could be a new booty call, a new hobby, or even just a new movie. Whatever your level of sad is should correlate to the solution. So if you’re devastated and want to get laid then go out to a bar and get a new chick tonight. But a word of warning: don’t put yourself through this again. Instead of doing the dance and asking for a number just be prepared to take her home on the spot. The moment she agrees and is ready to leave take her home and bang the night away. You mend your feelings and reclaim your manhood in one fell swoop.

Never Forget

Now that you’ve dealt with the travesty that is the failed booty call you can use it as a lesson. When a woman doesn’t respond to your texts or seems to always have an excuse at hand then you know she’s not in it for real. If a person wants sex badly enough, they will find a way to get it. Otherwise they’ll find excuses. So don’t forget the steps that you went through so that you might avoid them in the future and not have to deal with the whole mess again. With that said, if it does happen you’ll know how to get over it quickly.